Are you secretely still in contact with your romance scammer?Yes I keep the link open, for reasons I cannot easily explain. I know, completely removing his energy by deleting his google chat is what I am suppose to do. However I find it difficult as it holds so many documented memories of my fantasy romance with a military hero. (what a wonderful dream)….lolOnce in a while I send a message asking if he missed me, he always responds. He does not ask for anything because he see’s I am becoming balanced after 10 months of communication. Yes we connect through phone sex occassionly, the biggest different is its on my terms.I convinced myself that I was staying in contact to gain more information to write about, but secretly I wanted to hear him say he really likes me and will give up the scammer life and elope.Recently he has showed me his real face (he is handsome) and we video chat, he has removed his scammer page, but I do not trust him as yet, I phone him on my down time and keep my options open.I do feel EMPOWERED that I can have her contact without being addicted or needy for his attention and admiration. I have control over my emotions, self talk, boundaries, weakness and strengths.Right now I am obligated to myself, I am not responsible for an online stranger needs in any form or manner. His friendship does not restrict me from developing other relationships with possible suitors. I am independant in my mind body and soul. I know you could be thinking of how to do stuffs like this and still get back what you sent to this person , it is very easy like i did mine , you can get a instagram account if you don’t have one and message spak.nett to file a complaint , actions would be taken from there . Beloud