You know, if they. don't wish to make the effort with you... Find another way to celebrate, without them, if you can. More so if you have funds to afford a break away from them all, with the ones who've shown they care in life, with the smaller gestures, than the elaborate ones. Some people are mean, will sabotage, then laugh about it. Though, the person like this daughter will remember & decide to possibly do something else without them, on another birthday. xxx Beloud