Some people have common sense and know what the basic moral needs for stability and structure are that don't mean that they know what everybody's been through but they know what got them to and have them go through that problem and that people shouldn't have to go through those situations and circumstances a wise person doesn't want people to go through those problems in circumstances and situations and a wise person knows they haven't been through everything but they also know what got people and put people in those situations that they didn't want to be in and how to fix the problem is to get back that stability that ability and the ability to live communicate and protect your children and family again that's something they've stolen pay attention Beloud