you have to secure your family your groups your children and do your best to stop responding that means when instigated stop responding when provoked stop responding but make sure you protect your family with monitoring as long as you're responding they're deceiving once everyone stops responding they're done they can't harm no more once you get security for the people the right way they can't use people no more to instigate manipulate once you have the ability to life stability where you can work and get stable and take care of your family they can't push things out of control no more to manipulate I've got solutions for all this and we found the problem Beloud