https://www.quora.com/profile/Grete-47/Today-is-my-mother-Grete-Holmens-42nd-birthday-She-is-an-incredibly-warm-and-bright-person-but-she-often-spends-her?ch=18&oid=235770083&share=30f9bc82&srid=sPUYt&target_type=post